I have been dating a super hot, wonderful, girl for only 2 weeks, but I am crazy about her! We are having dinner tomorrow night and I want to bring her a gift to show her how much I care about her. I was thinking of buying her some earrings or a bracelet or would I be going to far getting her some lingerie she could model for me later? Seriously, what gift do you think I should get her?
Paul
Very exciting stuff! I am glad you found someone you like so much especially after only dating for 2 weeks. As for what to get her; you have only been dating for 2 weeks so the best gift is nothing. Remember the key to a successful relationship is that both parties feel that they are getting the better deal. By giving a girl you have been dating only 2 weeks a gift, you are sending a message that you feel you are beneath her and that you need to add gifts to your pot to even out the deal. Take a step back and make her work for it. I know plenty of super models that are dating the nerdiest guys (not saying you are a nerd) but you know what all those guys have in common? They make the girl work for it.
Maybe instead of buying a girl you have been dating only 2 weeks a gift; if you are out and about, buy yourself something nice in front of her. This will show her that you are able to take care of people you love and that if she works for it and earns your commitment she will be taken care of. The bottom line is just sit tight, have fun and realize that you are a great guy and just being in your company is a great gift for her. I am sure you feel the same way about her.
Hope that helps,
-A.
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